Steven - Sorry to have been one of those "force" type answers!! Try all your settings in different wind conditions and use the ones that you like the best! There is no standard setting that works for everyone, is what I'm getting out of this!! Because there's so much variety in length of leader, knot distance, position of hands on handles, etc, etc, there is no one perfect setting!! That's the beauty of this, what works for you may not be what I like at all!! It sounds like the goal is control!!! As long as you can comfortably control the kite and figure out new moves, then have at it!!
LOL ... You just went from "use the force" to "try everything"
I agree, but having a few very specific 'good' starting points is useful to eliminate some not so good choices. My point was that new people are asking questions because they don't know the answer. Every possible combination it too time consuming and no fun, use the force is too vague, and whatever feels right is useless because everything feels hard to begin with because it's new.
I like what JB did in his last reply in that he stated the what him and SdR use. He then followed up by saying what you can do to get more forward drive if you want, but stated why it is that HE doesn't like it.
He gave a few sets of specifics, said how you can change it to trade one thing for another and also why he himself doesn't use it. With that, a new person could try a setting close to JB, if they struggle they could then move it as he stated. If they don't mind the trade off they have still been following solid advice all the way. If they find the same dislike that JB has, then they know they should suck it up and go back to the previous setting.
All this said, all this is eliminated with hands on time with an expert. One thing that stands out in my mind about Barts WSKIF megafly video was when JB called out that someone may have an easier time by moving their hands down the handles a fraction. This is someone who is reading the signs and suggesting corrections based off of that ... something really hard to do without physical interaction. We would have to start posting pics and video in an effort to help in that regard. I think I may post a few pics of me flying yesterday so that my hand position can be seen.
As I get more skilled, so the more vague answers and theories will hold more value to me. But I appreciate all the efforts none the less ....

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